Do You Know What You Don't Want?

"Complaining About What You Don't Want Can Help You Find Out What You Really Want "

If you have started pursuing success you may think that the first step is to write down a list of goals that you want.  But you may need to make another list before you do this

Discovering what you don't want from life is just as important.  Why?  Because what you may truly desire is usually the opposite of those things or situations that you don't want.

Start with what you find most upsetting to you.  It could be any of a hundred different things and you can begin by making a list of what you really don't like.  Everyone can easily make a list of these.

Start By Complaining

It's easer if you select your complaints from the list below.  It's just a sample of what many people often complain about.  All you have to do is agree or disagree because not everyone has everything to complain about

Check YES or NO for each statement below.  If you don't it's assumed you have nothing to complain about and the default answer will be NO.

	Yes  No
		I don't have enough money.
		I am unattractive.
		My marriage isn't working.
		I am in debt.
		I hate my job.
		I almost always have a headache.
		I am overweight.
		My back is always sore.
		It's too hard to make money in business.
		Few people really understand me.
		No one loves me and never will.
		I have no friends that really care about me.
		My family doesn't appreciate me.
		I don't have enough time to do everything.
		I don't get enough sex.
		I am too thin.
		I can't make any money on the Internet.
		I have to work hard to succeed.
		I will never meet the right person for me.
		My children don't listen to me.
		I can't seem to finish anything I start.

     

To find out how to turn your complaints into goals you really want, click on the button above or do what most other people do, keep complaining.  But remember that...

it's always your choice.

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